Friday, April 18, 2014

Capacity To Love



When working with a client today this is what came up in regards to interactions with his father.

My client always felt isolated, unloved and abnormal, and being extremely sensitive and empathetic internalized his father's harsh temperament toward him as, "I'm not deserving of love and something is wrong with me."  When doing healing work with him, it was apparent that from the age of 4 he was consciously aware that his father was indifferent toward him. This created an uncertainty, which lead to low self-esteem and trust issues that he carried into every experience and relationship he has had.


 "People give of themselves only at the capacity they are able to truly receive."